Turning daily exercise into family bonding experience

Published 5:00 am Thursday, March 17, 2011

DALLAS — When 5-year-old Hudson Plaskoff told his parents he wasn’t interested in karate or playing team soccer this year, they brainstormed other ways to make fitness fun for him and his brother Parker, 3.

Soon Melissa Plaskoff got the family, including husband Bart, on board with playing hide-and-seek and tag and going on walks in their Dallas neighborhood.

Not only has the family enjoyed the mental and physical benefits of daily exercise, but it’s proved to be a bonding experience, Plaskoff says.

“It’s a happy feeling when we’re all together. The joy of being with the family has changed our lives. My husband and I are closer than we’ve ever been.”

Cheryl Boswell, associate vice president of healthy lifestyles at the YMCA of Metropolitan Dallas in Irving, applauds the Plaskoffs’ approach as a healthy one, particularly in a world of hypercompetitive varsity sports and select teams where many kids may dismiss exercise as only for athletes.

“The message you need to send when your child doesn’t make the team or doesn’t want to be on the team is that as a family, we are a team,” she says.

Meredith Rosson, youth programs director at Cooper Fitness Center, where the Plaskoff family likes to run together on the track, has come up with a long list of fitness ideas for families, including an indoor obstacle course that the Plaskoffs enjoy.

Something as simple as a basketball hoop can be invaluable for a variety of games, too, Rosson says, including a version of Red Light-Green Light that’s played while dribbling.

The YMCA also posts a list of family fitness ideas at healthyfamilyhome.org, and family programming offered at local YMCAs’ websites.

The idea of family fitness may be catching on, Boswell says, pointing to the increased interest the YMCA is finding for its family swim and family fitness programs.

David Foster, executive director of the YMCA at Grand Prairie, Texas, says the family Zumba classes, where all ages dance to Latin-inspired rhythms, have been a particular hit.

“We want to give parents a chance to interact with their kids,” he says. “And the kids have as much fun watching their parents do the dancing as anything else.”

Melissa Plaskoff likes giving her kids a chance to laugh at mom and dad, too.

She says she and her husband enjoy jumping into leaves and playing traffic cop with their kids, handing out tickets to the boys as they ride their bicycles.

They also see the physical benefits of volunteer work such as Meals on Wheels, which involves carrying heavy loads of food to and from the car to deliver to those in need.

“It’s a workout, and we’re making a difference,” Plaskoff says proudly.

Her favorite reward? There’s nothing that gets her boys talking like family playtime.

“A lot of times people will say, ‘How did you know what your kids did at school today?’ We know because when you get the ball out and kick it with them, they open up and want to share. Their communication with us is the very best.”

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