Burned out on DIY blogging
Published 12:00 am Tuesday, September 30, 2014
- L.E. Baskow / The New York TimesMandi Gubler, who writes the blog Vintage Revivals, at her home in St. George, Utah, this month. Like many do-it-yourself design bloggers, Gubler occasionally finds herself drained of inspiration and struggling to satisfy content-starved fans.
It started so innocently.
This month, John and Sherry Petersik, the husband-and-wife duo behind the hugely popular home-renovation blog Young House Love, apologized to their readers for not writing their regular Thursday post and asked how they felt about shorter posts when “we can’t write something juicy.”
The casual visitor to Young House Love would hardly have noticed a lack of industriousness. The Petersiks, who are in their early 30s and live in Richmond, Virginia, have bought and renovated three homes in the last eight years, each project bigger than the last, published a best-selling how-to book, designed a line of wall hooks sold by Target, decorated an entire show house, had two children and blogged, tweeted and Instagrammed every last detail of it.
Young House Love has an almost mind-numbing amount of DIY content, such as instructions on how to install laundry-room cabinets and how to stain concrete floors, all of it delivered step-by-step in the cheerful, self-deprecating, broadly comic tone that has made the Petersiks Internet stars.
But some loyal readers had lately noticed a decrease in quantity and quality. There were more product giveaways, fewer in-depth tutorials. The Petersiks’ trademark gung-ho enthusiasm seemed forced. And since the birth of their second child, Teddy, in April, they were increasingly voicing their difficulty in balancing work and family.
In hundreds of replies to the Petersiks’ query, these and other concerns were raised, sometimes bluntly. One commenter named Margaret said she had lost interest in Young House Love because each of the couple’s three homes “look exactly the same” and complained they decorate with “cheap furniture.” The couple shouldn’t use their children as an excuse for a lack of posts, Margaret added, because they “make big bucks” from their blog.
Other readers rushed to the Petersiks’ defense, and the comment thread devolved into the tedious back-and-forth Web forums tend to.
After absorbing the criticism, the couple responded in a post titled “Feeeeeelings,” in which they confessed to “feeling off for a while” and missing the days when “we did this for the love.” Although they had scaled back outside projects to recommit to the blog, they were unable to shake the sense of “letting you guys down repeatedly.” They had decided to step away from Young House Love for an indeterminate period and explore other career options. The unexpected announcement has generated more than 4,000 comments.
The Petersiks declined to be interviewed for this article; Sherry Petersik responded in an email that “we really would like to clear our heads and refocus.” But they are not alone in their experience. Blogger burnout seems to be something that many of their colleagues in the world of home and DIY blogs, most of them in their 20s and early 30s, can relate to as well.
Aging out?
Is the first generation of design bloggers aging out of the blogosphere? Or is this just a new twist on an old business story, updated for the Internet age?
Pam Kueber, the midcentury design expert behind the blog Retro Renovation, is 55, and she sees the Petersiks’ escalating stress levels and unhappiness simply as evidence of the latter: A passion turns into a hobby, which becomes a full-time career. “And in some predictable period of time, it consumes your life and sucks the joy out if it,” said Kueber, finishing the arc. “That last part of the Shakespearean tragedy is what you have to be mindful of not letting happen.”
It’s a tricky thing to avoid as a full-time blogger, considering that the Internet never sleeps, readers want fresh content daily, and new social media platforms must be mastered and added to the already demanding workload. Add to that the economic challenges of blogging full time. As Grace Bonney of Design Sponge lamented this year in a “State of the Blog Union,” advertising rates have dropped significantly because advertisers are flooded with options.
The challenges
To earn money, many bloggers have had to embrace sponsored content, breeding distrust among readers. Several Young House Love readers, for instance, thought the giveaways were product placements in disguise, even though the Petersiks maintained they weren’t compensated for doing them.
“If readers begin to suspect that your content is heavy on product placement, if they see excessive amounts of sponsored posts, you risk losing what’s most important, which is trust and authenticity,” said Kueber, who still relies largely on banner ads and has done two sponsored posts.
And blogs that focus on the home come with their own particular set of challenges. Unlike a personal style blog, in which generating new content can be as simple as getting dressed in the morning, producing a decorating or DIY blog involves considerable time, expense and domestic upheaval.
Brittany Watson Jepsen writes The House That Lars Built, a blog with a clean Scandinavian aesthetic. Her life hasn’t been nearly as streamlined lately. “Right now, our home is a disaster of props because we had four photo shoots this week,” said Jepsen, 32, who shares an apartment with her husband, Paul Jepsen, in Provo, Utah. “Tuesday night I just sat there and I couldn’t move. This is the week of burnout.”
And when Jepsen posts one of her craft projects, such as making a custom coverlet for a camp chair, she said, it may take her days to shop for the materials and create, style and photograph it. Then she has to figure out a way to translate it to her readers in six easy steps. “DIY takes a lot of planning, executing and money,” she said. “Even the simplest of projects take quite a bit of materials.”
It gets more complicated when you’re using your house as the staging ground, as Mandi Gubler does. Gubler, 31, runs the decorating and DIY blog Vintage Revivals, and as her loyal readers know, her home in southern Utah has been decorated, redecorated and decorated again.
“My mom comes to my house, and there’s this revolving door of furniture,” Gubler said. “She can’t understand it.”
She added: “That’s the process. I love when a room is done, but let’s be honest: It’s going to be changed.”
Retro Renovation has evolved into a practical resource for other vintage-minded renovators, but Kueber’s blog got its initial boost when she redid the kitchen of her own house in Lenox, Massachusetts, using 1963 Geneva steel cabinets. Despite the traffic boost that created, she said, “I really don’t want to be knocking down any more walls.”
‘Living in chaos’
Kueber suspects the Petersiks’ never-ending home construction contributed to their feelings of burnout and their decision to re-examine their careers. “Have you had to renovate a house?” Kueber said. “It’s worse than having kids. Making a living by living in chaos might get old.”
The Petersiks were early adopters of the blog format and hardly could have anticipated the success and opportunities that would result from telling strangers about redoing the dreary den of their starter home. But from the outset, the couple forged an intimate bond with their audience that went beyond fix-it projects. When they staged their DIY wedding in the backyard in 2007, they posted an album’s worth of photos, complete with a cost breakdown (cupcakes and s’mores: $125). And when Sherry Petersik had life-threatening complications during the birth of their first child, she shared the emotional story online.
The couple also worked tirelessly. Barely had they finished one total home redo when they bought another fixer-upper and then a third, as if they were trapped on a house-jumping hamster wheel by the need to generate blog content. Last November, the couple posted a to-do list for their latest home, a stately brick four-bedroom with a showcase lawn. If you print the list, it runs to 20 pages. You could exhaust yourself just reading it.
Erin Loechner, who publishes the blog Design for Mankind, said that professional bloggers such as herself take on very demanding, self-imposed workloads. “I think there’s a fear that if we post less, our readers will find that content elsewhere,” she said. And yet many bloggers don’t want to complain for fear of sounding whiny or ungrateful.
One wonders what the Petersiks will do should they decide to resume Young House Love. Much of the blog’s content and appeal have derived from seeing them transform their own homes; a studio space or a third-party house doesn’t seem like a solution.
Indeed, the very aspects that fueled their success — their machinelike content-generation, the close personal engagement with readers that bordered on oversharing, the romance of being a husband-and-wife DIY blogging team — may turn out to be the things that make continuing the blog in its current form impossible.
It wasn’t always so. Go back far enough in the Young House Love archives and you will find the couple’s first post, dated Sept. 24, 2007.
“We’re about a month into blogging,” John Petersik wrote in reply to a reader’s wish of good luck. “And we’re still loving it.”