Seattle great-grandmother makes it to her 1st prom

Published 12:00 am Saturday, July 7, 2018

Wearing a black dress and a white rose corsage on her wrist, Marie Antone followed her prom date onto the crowded, dimly lit dance floor.

“This one is going out to Marie,” announced the DJ. As the first notes of one of her favorite songs started to play, Antone’s date gently took both of her hands. Together they swayed from side to side.

This was Antone’s first prom, something that she never imagined she’d experience. She turned 74 last November.

Her date is Juan “Neeto” Old Chief Betancourt. The 18-year-old wanted to honor his great-grandmother, Antone, by bringing her to his senior prom in June.

“In our ways, like, the women are like the strong ones,” said Betancourt, who is Squamish, Yakama and Blackfeet. “They’re like the backbone pretty much.”

Betancourt surprised Antone with a “promposal” at her Seattle home in June with a sign that read, “Grandma gives the best hugs and kisses.” The poster board was decorated with her favorite candy, Hershey’s Kisses.

“It was a wonderful surprise,” said Antone.

Betancourt said his great-grandmother, who helped raise him, puts people ahead of herself. He wanted the evening to celebrate her contributions to their family.

Antone wasn’t able to attend prom in her youth. She lived in dozens of foster homes while growing up in Washington and Montana after being abandoned by her mother. The Zack family of the Yakama Nation adopted her in her teenage years, and that’s where she would later meet her husband.

The hardships Antone endured have made Betancourt recognize “there’s always someone out there that can have it way worse than you,” he said. “Family always comes first.”

Uncle Bert Nolan drove Antone, Betancourt and his girlfriend to the dance in his 1964 Impala.

The night culminated with Betancourt’s requesting Shania Twain’s, “Man! Feel Like a Woman!” Antone, who loves country music, danced with her great-grandson underneath a sculpture of a 140-year-old western hemlock tree.

This summer, Betancourt will participate in the Power Paddle to Puyallup 2018 Tribal Canoe Journey, and will attend powwows across the country.

He wants to finish college, “start working and help my family,” Betancourt said. Like his great-grandmother, he wants to “be an inspiration.”

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